Unrequited Love

Man of enthusiasm. A strict but warm hearted father to his three children. A loving man that will stand forever beside his wife. a good and cheerful fellow to his friends. He is the one, my father a man of sweet thoughts. One of the meaningful person that give reasons why I should exist here. My father, Jerry Armodia Ygaña. Often called "JERRY". We call him Papa. 1965 on the nineteenth day of December, he was born in the province of Laguna at San Pedro. the seventh youngster of the couple Maercelino and Narcisa Ygaña.

It is famous to describe a person as a man of few words. But me, to describe my father his a man full of words. Blah blah there blah blah here. Especially when he disciplined us. He is strict like a mother when it comes to the cleanliness status of our house. And also when he is drunk, he talk and talk even its late in the evening. That's why my grandmother don't like my father to drink alcohol because he disturbed her sleep. But for me he is sweeter when he is drunk. He hug us and say "Mahal na mahal ko tong  anak ko. tong bunso kong to!" But sometimes I am also irritated when I'm busy doing my homework and projects and I also hate the bad smell of alcohol.

This Father's Day I have decided to greet him, hug him and say 'Than you Pa! I love You.' For I think that's the sweetest thing that I can do. I wish to do him favor like obeying his commands, make him coffee. But I know I can't, not because I really can't make coffee but it's the sad thing that he is far from us working in Manila. Honestly I planned to give him card but I'm in the state of being lazy cause I need to finish first my my blog # 1 that day so I forgot to my plan. Then I said that this Friday I should make him experience the Father's Day  and i should not forget it! I'll request him to give me money Joke! I will request him to stay with  us and spend the day with us. I hoped he will be happy that day. i will persuade him to stop drinking and lessen his smoking. I hope that he will not refuse to do that. I force myself to accomplish this big task for I know he'll be grateful when I do that.

Actually I don't know that last Sunday was Father's Day though I heard my church mate greeted all the father in the church. it is maybe because I was too upset thinking of the things that I should finish before Monday. But I'm happy that day that he didn't drink alcohol that day. I thought that maybe it's because it's father's day hahah.

I was thankful having a father like him. He is always telling jokes. Sometimes he is acting like a gay and we just laugh and laugh. Sometimes we quarrel and we call it 'Children vs. Father'  XD. It is always because of his Cds. That every Saturday early in the morning you will hear 'Welcome to the hotel bla bla bla bla....' It was still fun to be with him. 

NOTE: That's not us!

I miss those days that he is always with us. But I can't wish him to stay and stop working. He go home Friday night, then next thing in the morning that is Saturday he will wash his clothes and spend the whole afternoon jamming with his friends, sometimes he play his Cds. (Last Saturday I was shocked one of the song  there was 'Im a Barbie Girl bal bla bla bla bla'). Then he will wake up 1 AM to travel back in Manila. But even though he is far he always call me at 5:30 in the morning just to9 make sure I'm already awake and off to school. I was very thankful he is concern to me and thankful that Lord has given me a blessing, a wonderful and caring man.

      

My Ultra Umega Handsome Father! WUSHU! XD

For God commanded, 'Honor your father and your mother,' and, 'Whoever reviles father or mother must surely die.' (Mat 15:4). This one is to remind not only children to honor their parents but to remind those of us who are fathers to live in a way to make honoring you easy for your children. Do not teach one thing and live the opposite. Also remember that you are a son of your parents, model the honor you want from your children.